Hi all
1st time poster...so apologies if the thread is long. Just after some advice really
Been with my widowed BF almost 2 years now. He has a daughter 12yrs old and 2 stepsons 17 and 18.
Have always got on well with the daughter and thought we had a pretty close relationship. She lost her mom to cancer at the age of 8.
I dont live with BF but he asked when the lockdown was announced if id like to go and stay at his as i live on my own.
Everything was fine for about a week, then his daughter who was staying at a family members was texting her Dad saying it had felt like i was living there permanently.
I asked if it was going to be a problem and it seems it was. I offered to go home and was met with no argument whatsoever.
I got upset and pissed off because i was disappointed with my BF for not explaining to his daughter how long i'd be there for and also for allowing his daughter to dictate who stays in his house.
I understand his daughter is his priority but i feel really hurt by this situation. He doesnt see it as a big deal but i do. AIBU?
ps. never had kids myself and this is my 1st relationship involving kids. I am 43, my BF 42 years old.