Hi, I never had the best of a relationship with my husband. But I did try to be the best wife I could i would argue but only for him to see sence which he never ever did.
He was good when it come to the Bill's he covered gas, electric, and shopping. I'd cover rent, car and what not. Or if I asked him for money for silly things he would never refuse. He would tell me that I made him complete and that I was the best thing that ever happend to him and just randomly tell me he loved me. He wasnt controlling.
This is where its goes wrong when he would drink he would get angry violent. He has choked me punched me pulled my hair kicked me in the ribs and repeatedly standed on my head and face.
He said sorry he didnt know what he was doing as he was drunk and spiked. He believes hes a good person. He was good but he was also very cruel. He would give you the last pound in his pocket but kill you as to look at you if you argued when he had drink in him.
I left him and 4 weeks later he had an affair but says that it wasnt an affair because I told him it was over. Then he says to me that he asked me not to leave. In other words we were done so he played free willy. I found pictures in the phone he had taken her somewhere that was special to me and him. Did you think he ever loved me in the first place? Because it's hard for me to figure out how you be everything to someone one minute then nothing the next. He fell out with my family but it's like he took that out in me too! He has been very selfish with other things that over looked. What do you guys reckon??