Some of you may have seen my previous post where my ex said he wanted to try again then ghosted me when I confronted why he didn’t delete the girls he cheated with from his social media..
Well I left it then he replied. He actually deleted all those girls with no objections and we were getting on well again. However I then noticed he wasn’t really chatting much as it was a message every few hours and difficult to hold a conversation because of how far apart the messages were. He said he doesn’t use his phone as much now and even others had picked him up on this issue.
We carried on talking, everything was fine. We was having a general conversation on Tuesday but he never replied. Then I saw him come online twice since I sent my message so I sent him another saying I’m guessing we aren’t talking anymore. Didn’t come online since.. Yesterday I sent a message saying how he really has hurt me and would’ve been easier/less hurt if he had just told me what’s going on instead of ghosting. I also said I’d delete his number as clearly he isn’t interested etc. He has only just read it but gone offline. No reply again.
I do not understand. Why make such an effort to prove you are doing right by me - deleting and blocking those girls, getting a new number etc. To then ghost me randomly during a normal conversation? We hadn’t even argued. It makes no sense.
I have never felt so confused, hurt and worthless because of someone else’s actions. I don’t know what to do with myself. It’s genuinely made me feel so worthless, that I’m not even worth a reply.. the girl he loved and wanted to settle down and have a future with. He’s made me feel so isolated and confused by this. I’ve never felt so hurt and upset. Anyone understand why he has done this?!