My fiancé and I have been together for three years and are getting married next year. I love him dearly and believe he loves me. We’ve gone through a couple of rocky patches in the first couple of years but have been pretty happy for the last, hence getting engaged and planning our wedding.
One of the reasons we hit a rocky patch was because I found out he had slept with someone else roughly five months into our relationship, something he denied until one of his best friends drunkenly told me and he finally admitted it to sleeping with her four or five times. It upset me a lot but we moved on.
A couple of days ago, he’d had a few drinks (so he was tipsy but not blind drunk), we where chatting about the future and I said how far we’d come since the woman (I was being nice and positive) and his attitude changed. When I asked what’s wrong, he said that he’d made a mistake, that it was the beginning of our relationship...he then carried on with “I’d just got into sales, I was doing a lot of stupid things. You’re not going to like this but I was sleeping with a lot of women then, I was a different person” I was slightly gobsmacked at the fact that he’d got into his sales job around six to seven months into our relationship. We argued and I went to bed. When I asked him the next day how many people he’d slept with, he said just the one I knew about. When I asked why he’d said what he did, he said he was drunk and that it was rubbish...
I don’t know what to believe, I know it was ages ago but I feel hurt and don’t know what to do