Been with partner 22 years. I'm 48 and he is 52. Kids grown up and left home.
P has always lied and gone after other women. Always on the lookout for something better than me. Whether he's followed through with these relationships, I don't know and don't really care. Lately he has been paying attention to me, saying nice things and being generally nice and generous with his money. I thought he had outgrown this
My DDad died last year and left me (only child) his house. I've been slowly getting things together to move out and reclaim my half of our joint house. I haven't told him I'm moving out, but thought maybe reconsider in view of the changed behaviour. Always denied lying, cheating etc and very clever at covering his tracks.
So I checked his phone. It used to have a code on it but it's unlocked now. Quite shocked as he is good at passwords on everything and hiding things. The phone is out of the Ark. a really old Samsung. Took a while to find messages as it's not at all like my iPhone!
Found a message conversation from someone with the name of a woman he knew before he met me, who he said had died in a car accident! No idea if it's this woman but... this is the weird thing, several messages from her dated a few days ago. 15 or so messages, including this one with the message
In the comments. Definitely a 2 sided conversation with him, but no corresponding messages?
So I looked in his sent box and found messages from him to her dated 2014. Also with a message I'll show in the comments.
I'm going for sure now but would love to throw some evidence in his face as the removals van pulls up. What should I do now. I have the phone number of this woman. I just love a bit of revenge apart from taking half his house away.
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