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Feeling awful. Can someone help.

19 replies

Washedoutlady · 29/03/2020 05:28

Had an arguement with bf don't normally argue much at all.
Told I just wanted to start an argument I'd made things up and then just walked out. I honestly don't think I was being unreasonable and I tried to talk to him about how I was feeling.
Getting over cv19 so feeling crap.
I just think it's really unfair to walk out and then ignore me.
He doesn't live with me so he went home around 1pm.

OP posts:
PaulinePetrovaPosey · 29/03/2020 05:30

Go to sleep.

And don't have him round again if he doesn't live with you, ffs!

Washedoutlady · 29/03/2020 05:40

I will go to sleep once I finish work!

OP posts:
Cordial11 · 29/03/2020 05:50

Getting over corona and bf round that doesn't live there? So he can pass it on to whoever also????

Noideasorry · 29/03/2020 05:52

He doesn't live with me so he went home around 1pm


If you're in the U.K, have you seen the news recently?!? Envy

HellonHeels · 29/03/2020 05:54

We're meant to be isolating. That means that if your (unpleasant) boyfriend doesn't live with you he should not be coming to your house.

So, he's.gone now and should not be allowed back.

BigSandyBalls2015 · 29/03/2020 05:56
Shock
DateAndWalnuts · 29/03/2020 06:00
Hmm
Cordial11 · 29/03/2020 06:23

There has been alot of false posts this week, I think this may be one. People must be bored while isolating Envy

Dontletitbeyou · 29/03/2020 06:28

What’s wrong with you people . He shouldn’t be coming round to see you if you don’t live together . Feeling awful now , just wait till your actions could potentially put someone in hospital . He’s gone home ,!!great , tell him to stay there ffs

Washedoutlady · 29/03/2020 06:40

I have been tested I'm a key worker and am now negative but thanks for your help. I've been in isolation long enough and done what I should have done thanks.

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Dontjumptoconclusions · 29/03/2020 06:41

Great. Another person who can't follow basic government instructions.

Cordial11 · 29/03/2020 06:45

But you said above 'getting over cv19 so feeling crap' ?? Did you get tested and receive the results in the past few hours?

CupoTeap · 29/03/2020 06:46

Why was visiting?

BuckingFrolics · 29/03/2020 06:58

Can you explain what "I'm now negative" means??? Do use technical language if that's the only way to explain, I'm sure we'll all understand.

You and your BF are massively, massively breaking the "rules" and thus will get no sympathy from MN

BuckingFrolics · 29/03/2020 07:02

And you posted about not seeing your BF due to CV, a couple of weeks ago, and how hard it would be. And your DD is immunosuppressive and had been self isolating.

So then you being BF into your house?

Frankly OP your behaviour is shockingly bad for a health worker. My best guess is you were probably in the wrong with your BF as your judgement is seriously off.

Homebird8 · 29/03/2020 07:35

@Washedoutlady I understand you perfectly. For those who don’t

You had CV.
You isolated just as you should.
You were tested and are now ‘negative’ which means you are over it and can’t infect anyone.
You are still feeling not quite back to full strength.
Your BF visited you and should have isolated himself at home.
You shouldn’t have let him in but as he can’t catch it from you and you can’t catch it from him it’s probably not the end of the world.
Your BF was obnoxious and for that reason shouldn’t visit again. Let him sod off home for good.
You struggled in to work anyway as you are a key worker.
You are looking forward to some rest.
And you are getting grief for a load of things you are not guilty of.

Does that cover it?

Spasiba · 29/03/2020 21:40

I thought the only people getting tested were those in hospital.
And royalty, politicians etc.

Emjaygal · 29/03/2020 21:43

People like you are the issue. Read the rules. Read the news. It couldnt be clearer.

crazycatgal · 29/03/2020 21:46

Ffs he shouldn't be coming around.

I miss my BF but because I care about other people I've not seen him since we locked down.

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