I've been off isolating with the two DD's I share with exh for two weeks whilst trying to manage an extreme staffing crisis in my care services due to Corona. So far so stressful.
Ex has his elderly Mother living with him. We both decided it was better to keep symptomatic girls away from her, and I was also symptomatic. He's been coming to see them daily through the window.
I'm due to go back to work on Monday. Due to ongoing staffing issues I am actually moving in to one of my homes from Monday morning to Wednesday Evening. I will be off or wfh Thursday, work on Friday 9-5 all being well, off Saturday, work Sunday 12 hours.
I suggested Exh have the girls Monday to Wednesday night, I would have them Thursday day and night, he will have them 9-5 Friday-I'll have them Friday night to Sunday morning and then back to him.
He said no as It's meant to be his weekend with them. He won't give up his Saturday.
Thurs and Sat are the only days I can see them next week.
He will be wfh with very little to do and there is nowhere to do anyway-so I can't see that weekend days vs week day days are a thing currently.
He will be having them more than he normally has them next week. This will go on for about 12 weeks probably as I will need to physically been in work over and above my normal hours I would think.
He will have been the first to stand outside clapping for key workers last night. But he can't even let this bloody keyworker have her DD's for the short time actually available to me next week.
It's been a stressful few weeks and it's not going to improve anytime soon. But this has really made me cry today 
I'm sure this discussion must be going on up and down the land at the moment. It's just so disappointing.