Do you believe in playing hard to get ?

[yopopo]

Well not so much hard to get but theres a guy who sometimes texts me a lot then other times we get into a habit where I'm texting him to start conversations.
Then I get fed up and just stop texting then he starts texting chasing me.
I'm bored of it.
Do you think I need to stop messaging him?
And let him miss me chasing ?

Unfortunately, yes I do believe in it. I wish I could just be honest with someone when I like them but it has never worked for me.

He'll never be a partner. He'll draaaaaaag you down until your mental health is broken.

How old are you op? I haven't played that game since I was about 18. Just stop replying to him if your sick of it.

Take a step back, don't text him for a week or two. Then see how you feel, you might be surprised that you don't miss him at all. You are worth so much more than you know. It's time to move on from this man, he knows exactly what he is doing, he's got his cake and he's eating it. It might take time but eventually you will find someone that wants you and only you, and the wait will be worth it.

You mention being 'bored '. Of his behaviour. I said that once to my counsellor. She said what does that mean? Cos it turned out I didn't mean bored, I meant fucking furious about the situation. Cut your losses hun, honestly.