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No sex drive

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Ruacai89 · 22/03/2020 14:32

Hi all. I've been with my partner for 6 years with 2 kids. I've never had a big sex drive but recently I'm just sick of it I say yes to save an argument and a bad atmosphere. Is it bad for me to feel pressured to say yes just to save the stress of it all? I would rather just not be together than to keep doing it. Any advice would be great please. Thanks x

OP posts:
12345kbm · 22/03/2020 14:44

Please stop having sex you don't want. Stop. Don't do it. If someone is forcing you or coercing you with tantrums and threats, that's rape.

Tell him no. NO! Start making plans to exit the relationship OP. Anyone who loves you and cares for you, anyone who is a decent person, doesn't force you to have sex.

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Ruacai89 · 22/03/2020 15:51

Tbh I just don't want to be with him. But if I was to leave he would not take the kids and I would not be able to go work. That's the only reason I'm still with him. Do you have any advice on how to leave a unhappy relationship

OP posts:
12345kbm · 22/03/2020 16:09

Take a look at the CABx guide to Ending a Relationship
You can also check out Gingerbread.
You can find a Family Law solicitor here.

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