Is sex with your SO the best you’ve ever had?

[Poppygirl96]

And if not does it matter much to you in your relationship? Just trying to gather an idea of how important people find it in a relationship

Obviously if you are older then it isn't the same as being 20! That said it can be amazing when you are older, it's just a bit different and sometimes things don't work kwim if you love someone it doesn't matter

I'm having better sex now then when I was 20. I'm late 30s and DH is late 40s. It's definitely got better with age!

I don't know. It's definitely up there. Hehe

My DW and I have a great sex life. And we've been together 30 years. These two facts are not unrelated.

Yes, sex with my DH is the best I've ever had. Everything else with him is the best I've ever had too. That's why we're married.

What is SO????

I’m currently single but the best sex I have ever had was with a man I finished with in 2008, he was violent but the sex was the best part about our relationship, we always had sex twice a day every day, morning and night and if day for a couple of days I didn’t want sex then he would think there was something wrong, it’s quite hard to be turned on when he had belted me the day before though.

My last relationships sex life was okay but not fantastic.

I think sex is in my top 3 of importance in a relationship.

Significant Other

Nope, but its pretty good and i wouldn't trade him in the hopes of getting better.

Sex with my DH is the best I have ever had with a man. Sex with a woman (in particular, not a random) was on another level altogether.

Yes, we are tuned into each other and have the most mind-blowingly amazing sex at least once a day. The neighbours must hate us .

No it's not the best in terms of physically but certainly the best in terms of emotions. It's good, we have an active sex life and that's enough for me. There's much more to our relationship than sex. I'm with the most handsome, kindest, supportive man I've met in my life. I'm not silly enough to ponder on how great sex was with my exes - & yeah some of them were great in bed. But it's about who the dick is attached to thanks.

Yes, and I think that's because we are in tune and he's not selfish. Doesn't happen often enough though but I think I prefer quality over quantity.

Yes it really is
I was so so promiscuous and it really bothers me

My husband I love him so god damn much and that's why our sex is the best sex I have ever had
I trust him, I communicate with him. I love him. I am used to him. We have sex at least Five times a week. It is an effort at times but very central to both of our self esteem. I want to feel wanted and equally I want him to feel wanted too because, he is.
we bicker loads and our relationship isn't perfect but the familiarity forms part of the sexual stability and satisfaction

Spent majority of my 20s in a very unhappy marriage and thought that part of me had switched off forever. Been with my partner last 7ish months and best I've ever experienced.
I would have thought that after the initial honeymoon period it would have calmed down but it's just got better. I never knew it could be this good if I'm honest (soppy maybe but true 😂)

Yes. It was always very good but the emotional connection and trust after 20 years is off the scale. Plus I still fancy the pants off him.