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Friend's husband messaging other women

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Mrskeats · 19/03/2020 16:33

I have a friend who has confided in me about this.
Her husband now been caught twice messaging other women. He says it was because it was because he was struggling with some issues and it was a kind of distraction,
No meeting up he says.
No idea what to say,

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MrsWeebles · 19/03/2020 16:33

how about "LTB"?

Kel9 · 19/03/2020 16:43

What? She needs to address the issues with him. This is not acceptable on any level no matter what he’s going through.

All you can do is be there to listen to her! Xx

Mrskeats · 19/03/2020 16:47

Yep no defence I thought.
The second time too.
Depressing. He's great in every other way.

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putthechocolatedownn · 20/03/2020 15:14

Leave he will only do it again.

Closetbeanmuncher · 20/03/2020 15:48

because he was struggling with some issues

The only issue I can see is the cuntish validation vacuum she's married to.

I'm also not sure how someone can be so great when they're missing the main pillar of good character...integrity.

If she chooses to tolerate it nothing you can really do but mentally prepare her for the third, forth, fifth time etc.

Mrskeats · 20/03/2020 16:39

Yes I fear you will be right.

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vegansprinkle · 24/03/2020 22:30

How is your friend ?

changemynamechangemynamewhen · 24/03/2020 22:33

Depressing. He's great in every other way.

They always are. How do you think they get away with it? Most cheaters really lay the groundwork at home in terms of being the doting husband and father- why would they act any other way and arouse suspicion?

lexiepuppy · 24/03/2020 23:40

He has no respect for your friend and will continue messaging and possibly having affairs too.

Tell your friend to start getting her ducks in a row, without him knowing about it.
Get all financial paperwork together.

Good luck💐

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