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Would you still speak to him if he doesn't want you?

11 replies

poolpoolt · 18/03/2020 15:59

He is a player and always has been.
Last April we went on some dates,slept together etc.
Texting /phone calls daily but he wasn't wanting a relationship.
He texts lots of other girls and when one gets in a relationship another girl pops up.
I stopped speaking in January to him because I was hurt and he didn't want to continue sleeping with me as I wanted more and he didn't.
Now we text daily again but on his Facebook today there's a girl commenting on his status (who he's clearly texting and probably slept with )
It just makes me feel not good enough
I don't know if I can keep speaking

OP posts:
Shoxfordian · 18/03/2020 16:05

Block him
He's just treating you as an option

poolpoolt · 18/03/2020 16:24

I know I think he is.
I'm just one of many girls to him.
I'm assuming he has a massive selection of us.

OP posts:
yesterdaystotalsteps123 · 18/03/2020 16:30

Apparently you attract what you think you deserve and luckily you know you deserve better than this twat. He's not a player he's an sti riddled loser. You can do better and you will if you block and delete

Shoxfordian · 18/03/2020 16:41

Yeah he probably does, there are a lot of mugs in the world. Doesn't mean you have to be one too

NoMoreDickheads · 18/03/2020 16:42

Block. Blocking will give your self-esteem a boost, as it's asserting to yourself and others that you deserve better.

poolpoolt · 18/03/2020 18:55

We haven't slept together in 3 months so obviously he will have slept with lots of others

OP posts:
TemoraryUsername · 18/03/2020 18:56

It's a no brainer my lovely.

Fairycake2 · 18/03/2020 18:58

Definitely block him. He's a grade A twatt and you deserve better

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pooopypants · 18/03/2020 19:40

Find some self respect OP. I say this with feeling, you need to realise your self worth

willowpatterns · 18/03/2020 19:56

It's not that he doesn't want you. It's just that he wants to shag anything that moves.

He's no catch, he's never going to change, and you would never be able to trust him.

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