I live with my partner for 1 year and 4 month, and we have been dating long distance 8 months before (i am east european girl and him is british). I m 32 years old and him is 51 years old. After i moved in everything started to change , he was talking about his ex girlfriend who he has been separed 7 years ago after a 3 years relationship together (only weekends and holiday). Long story short the chain of events, after i left my life back in my contry ( job as a flight attendant , friends, my rented flat ) i had no support in finding a new job, help to open a bank account etc. i had to do everything on my own, sex disappered completely, he sais he is not attracted anymore by me or i dont remember him who he wants , he pushed me to a trip back in my country to get rid of me . After he wanted to reconsiliate and i found a job to work six days per week. Last night we had a fight( he was physical abusive, push me 4 times so hard that i fell down on the floor) because i found out that an ex girlfriend is it on his will after a stupid joke because i always belived is his brother sister in law and his nephew. I ve started to make laugh because she knew it only 3 months and already is in his testament? He never had kids or wanted same as me, but him had plenty of relationships with single moms of 2, 3 kids.
And yes i know i m a possesive and jealous person , i m thinking why previous ex girlfriends been accepted with kids , had plenty of sex, bought them cars, recived expensive jewellery gifts and i have to put up with all the crap ?