Hello ladies I'm looking for some advice. I've been with my SO for over 3 years now. It's an OK relationship (if it is that). I know each relationship is different but I don't feel connected to him like I was with my previous partner. We hardly talk or have a laugh. I have more cinvsrsations/jokes/laughs with people that I work with. I do have a bit of trust issues as my first love lied about his where abouts and who he was with( he was with other girls) when we were together. My current partner went on a stag do not long after we met and when he came back I noticed he/she added each other on Facebook. I challenged this and he deleted her and said he never slept with her (which I do believe). Recently I noticed a girl on his Instagram who lives locally. I asked him about her and he said she works where he does but I know this is not true. I don't have an issue with him being friends/ adding girls he knows/ works with. My issue is he's adding/following girls he doesn't know. And it's the typical skinny, pretty, blonde girls. I feel like he wants something different. Excitement. I don't know. And he's always on his phone. Am I right for having these concerns? Does anyone else feel this way.