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Coronavirus and online dating

21 replies

roe2002 · 12/03/2020 20:51

Just that really
Considering that the worse is yet to come in the next few months, do you think that there'll be fundamental changes to the way people on first dates will interact with each other going forward?

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MaomiMak · 12/03/2020 20:52

No

Unless you are in the habit of falling into bed with someone on a first date, kissing or sharing cutlery with someone you just met.

RAOK · 12/03/2020 20:52

I read in the papers that the advice is to postpone dating for the time being.

otterhound · 12/03/2020 21:04

Well quite a few people do jump into bed in the 1st few dates....

I think get it and get it over and done with.
This could disappear in the next few months like sars did or linger around like seasonal flu.

MaomiMak · 12/03/2020 21:15

But the OP said people on first dates...not first few dates.

I thought she meant just the first one

roe2002 · 12/03/2020 21:15

So what I meant was that there's usually either a handshake, a hug or a kiss on the cheek (2 if you're continental) when greeting each other.
So will bumping elbows be the safe alternative?

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MaomiMak · 12/03/2020 21:17

I'd still hug. I get exposed to worse on a rammed tube train in London

PumpkinP · 12/03/2020 23:33

Lots of people sleep together on the first date.
Personally I’m not dating anyway so not something for me to worry about.

RantyAnty · 13/03/2020 00:49

Why would anyone bother dating right now? More important things to worry about.

Eesha · 13/03/2020 07:34

No but I don't think as many people will be interested in online dating for a while till it all blows over. It's just taken a lower priority I think.

MaomiMak · 13/03/2020 08:08

Why would anyone bother dating right now? More important things to worry about.

Because life goes on.

loorolls90 · 13/03/2020 19:14

I'm still on a dating site. It's a bit of a distraction for me as news about the Coronavirus is depressing.

I haven't got any dates lined up. Do you think it would be selfish to go on dates? I'm looking to take things slowly and hoping for a relationship

PumpkinP · 13/03/2020 19:56

I probably wouldn’t right now but everyone is different

whiplashy · 13/03/2020 23:10
Confused
roe2002 · 16/03/2020 17:26

Now that the Government have decreed that everyone must now practice social distancing and to avoid public areas such as bars, pubs and restaurants for the foreseeable future, what effect do you now think this'll have in the world of online dating?

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DysonFury · 16/03/2020 17:49

Just give fucking a swerve for a couple of months?

ExServiceWoman · 16/03/2020 17:50

This! But really this should be in the CV Topic!!

Coronavirus and online dating
RAOK · 16/03/2020 23:04

I’ve postponed a couple of dates for the time being.

Wanderlust21 · 17/03/2020 00:11

Deleted my tinder lol. I dont want to have to travel into town to meet anyone. Plus all the bars n cafes will be shut so...its not like summer whe you could just go for a picnic or something.

PumpkinP · 17/03/2020 00:11

Is it really that much of a big deal to just not date for a while? I don’t know how people can be bothered tbh. I’m only going out if it’s essential

SavageBeauty73 · 17/03/2020 02:50

I'm having a break from dating. Avoiding pubs etc.

chocolatdrink · 18/03/2020 19:55

I've now hidden my profile as I don't think it's a good time to be out socialising. But that's just my opinion

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