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This guy is a complete idiot, right ?

12 replies

Floral89x · 11/03/2020 21:07

He lives quite far from me, I went on a couple of dates with him about 4 years ago. But he was saying to me "I just want to spend all my time with you", telling me he really likes me etc and then he said to my friend behind my back that he had 'no feelings for me.'

Anyway, we have gotten back in touch. He lives in another country and I thought of going to see him, but i've realised it's not a good idea, he probably only wants one thing and doesn't give a stuff about me, plus I doubt it's a good idea to travel at the moment with the coronavirus.

He messaged asking me if I would 'show him round my house' and I didn't reply.

He messaged me today asking if I was still going to see him, and I replied that it was maybe best to not travel for the time being given the coronavirus.
He replied, "hahahahah wow is this thing really serious ?"
Just don't even know what to reply. He's completely ignorant and it's probable he just wants to sleep with me, hence why he's trying to get me to visit.

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flowerflies · 11/03/2020 21:15

Block him

Floral89x · 11/03/2020 21:16

I think I will do. I'm just tired of men only wanting casual things with me and never having feelings or wanting a relationship, but that's the way it is I guess.

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Joker123 · 12/03/2020 07:04

Sounds like a dick.

pilates · 12/03/2020 07:11

Yep, block and delete

BrowncoatWaffles · 12/03/2020 07:12

Not just a dick, a stupid dick. Definitely block and move on.

forumdonkey · 12/03/2020 07:14

You've started to put boundaries in place but you need to 'up' it now in terms of dating and relationships. You owe this man nothing. Who cares what he thinks, you don't want to see him and are unlikely to bump into him if he's abroad. You've told him why you won't meet him so you don't need to reply. Stop worrying about pleasing these men and put what you want first and then you will find someone worthy of you.

Floral89x · 12/03/2020 07:28

Thank you for the replies. You're right, he doesn't care about me as a person, he wants me to go and see him so he can get laid, that's why he's asking me again if i'm coming. I will forget him and think about what I want, which is not that.

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Notredamn · 12/03/2020 11:23

You could just say 'no I don't want to', the corona virus doesn't really come into it.

Interestedwoman · 12/03/2020 18:54

What a twat. Block.xx

ahsan · 12/03/2020 19:01

And I guess your paying to go see him so he can get laid and disappear for another 4 years. Block move on

PlumsGalore · 12/03/2020 19:42

Is he called Dan? Asking for a friend.

Floral89x · 12/03/2020 21:59

Nope, Andy :)
Yeah that's true, it would be a waste of money and time, I don't know why I thought it could go anywhere..

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