Name changed for this, i'll leave some details vague as DP knows i post/comment on here regularly.
Several years ago i moved in with DP at the time because we had a DC together basically, i knew it wasn't going to work out, he treated me like a doormat for several years, did nothing in the house, nothing for DC and lived his life as a singleton just under the same roof as us. Took me 4 years to wake up and LTB.
Fast forward a few years i've done it again...
A DC with a new partner, told myself it was different this time, i was moving in with him for myself not for the DC and was looking forward to being a proper family who shares parental duties, household chores etc. I am prepared to do more household wise as i work part-time but i do everything, look after both DC, do ALL household chores and DP sits on the couch all evening or goes out with friends as and when he likes (obviously im not saying he can't but he doesn't have to check to see if i am busy and he needs to look after DC or anything, he just makes his plans and goes)
Why have i done this to myself again!! Am i stupid!??
Oh and both DC were unplanned but very much wanted on my part of course, hence why i wasn't living with them beforehand.