Split up with my ex beginning of January. Posted about it on here. It was distance, busy lives and not getting to see each other. I basically felt I was an after thought in his life. Like he would make plans with others and then fit me in. I ended up being the same, so no time for us.
He is a nice guy and someone I fancied. It wasn’t a bad break up. We still said we were interested in each other - but not enough I suppose to make it work. I am very independent and he got his independence back after a codependent relationship. He has 2 jobs and 50% custody of his kid. Me no kids but very active life.
We didn’t talk for a few weeks then we messaged. Back to swapping a few messages everyday. We met up a few weeks ago and he stayed over. Was very natural and not awkward. He left the next afternoon and said see you around. Hesitated when saying it.
Back to messaging everyday. He keeps asking me about the cvirus as I work in a hospital as management. We both avoiding asking to see each other - he was never good at arranging dates, was always me, but I am a planner.
I have dropped a few hints. Such ax his heating wasn’t working tonight offered a shower at mine. His response was he needed an early night as he was at a stag weekend and too far to travel at 7pm. We live 45 mins drive.
So wise people. Why is he still texting me. Surely no one can send endless texts about the cvirus? Is he interested or just being friendly. I am dating and I know he is too.
I should ask, but part of he wants him to be interested and other thoughts, he is an ex for a reason.