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How to move on?

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Claire926 · 06/03/2020 00:06

There was a man I liked and we had a spark but he is passive and keeps using social anxiety as an excuse of not progressing. Whilst I understand it is hard having social anxiety I don't think he should be using people as a crutch and should seek help. I have decided to stop wasting my time as I don't need that in my life as it's not healthy for either of us. The thing is I have to see him once a week through work as it is unavoidable. Has anyone got any strategies so that when I do see him I have no feelings or thoughts for him anymore? Thanks.

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bluebell34567 · 06/03/2020 00:18

other than that meeting, dont have any other contact.
you have to re frame in your mind how you see him. try to see him as a normal person, not the one in your imagination that is perfect.

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