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Husband keeps commenting on Ex's facebook

11 replies

Bourdieu2014 · 05/03/2020 09:17

Maybe a slight over reaction, been with husband for 16 years he has been friends on social media with his ex partner for years. Everything she puts on he either comments or likes but couldn't give a crap about anything I post. Sounds pathetic and maybe the green eyed monster has made an appearance, a few years ago something like this would never of bothered me am I wrong to be concerned?

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Persiaclementine · 05/03/2020 09:26

Have you any idea why its bothering you now if it didnt previously bother you ? What is your relationship like ? Has it changed ?

MumofTinies · 05/03/2020 09:30

Do they have DCs together? If it's pictures of the children then it makes sense that he is reacting to them. If he is just liking any random stuff she posts while ignoring your posts then you are right to be upset.

PaterPower · 05/03/2020 09:31

But he lives with you - why would he also post comments on your SM if he can just talk to you about it?

I very rarely interact with my partner’s posts other than “liking” one or two (every blue moon or so) and she’s the same with mine.

I don’t have my exW as a “friend” so I don’t comment on her stuff, but I’m sure I would if we were linked and she posted pics of our kids or whatever.

GiveHerHellFromUs · 05/03/2020 09:42

Has he given you any other reasons to be suspicious?

mamato3lads · 05/03/2020 09:58

I think a lot of women would be unhappy with this , even if they try and pretend they're fine with it. If they have kids, I'd accept it, if not, he needs to move on

Bourdieu2014 · 05/03/2020 10:01

No there's no kids between them it's all photos of her he likes or comments on.

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GiveHerHellFromUs · 05/03/2020 10:02

He's out of order then. Why are they even Facebook friends?

I'd be calling him out on it.

mamato3lads · 05/03/2020 10:13

Me too. No need for that and to me, it would demonstrate an interest and a desire to keep in contact. Wouldn't have it.

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 05/03/2020 10:14

I wouldn't be happy. YANBU.

opticaldelusion · 05/03/2020 10:15

I wasn't even friends with my husband on fb. What's the point?

SpongeBobJudgeyPants · 05/03/2020 11:38

My XH is actually blocked on FB, FWIW.

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