I am not sure how to react.
A year ago when I was pregnant I sneaked a look at my husbands iPad (had previous issues with last partner and knew I shouldn’t but was being paranoid). I saw he had emailed to himself photos of two women naked, clearly he had found them on dating website as they were obviously not living in this country. I went mental, he apologised said they were old photos he had found in his phone he was keeping as little trophies.
Yesterday he was out and I checked iPad (had so far trusted him) and found more photos recently deleted of a foreign lady topless, and another couple he had emailed to himself. This time it was clear who one person was I found her number and messaged, she said they had never met and I had nothing to worry about. Again I confronted him, he said they were old tinder matches and the photos were again apparently old although they were in contact now as “friends” and he has told her he was married, baby etc. One particularly gross anal shot that he had emailed to himself was apparently sent from a lady on Instagram who was “probably sending it to everyone”. I’m pretty f&&ked off as you might imagine, with a young baby. According to him this embarrassing but “normal male behaviour”, “all men have some dirt on their phones”. How pissed off should I be.