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What are his intentions?

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Mia8xxx · 04/03/2020 00:08

This guy who I had a few dates with last year responded to my text to catch up with an enthusiastic yes. He also mentioned that he had a girlfriend and would have to ask her but that it ‘shouldn’t be too much of an issue’. I did not know about the girlfriend. Now I am wondering about his intentions. We did really like each other but had to stop seeing each other because it became a long-distance relationship. Now I am moving back to where he lives hence why I texted to catch up. I don’t understand why you would want to meet with an ex if you are happy in your relationship. I don’t want to hurt anyone by agreeing to meet. Should I meet with him bearing in mind that I would like to keep in touch (but under no circumstances get involved with his relationship!)?
We weren’t friends before (we dated) so I am confused as to what his intentions are?

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Lampan · 04/03/2020 00:15

What were your intentions when you texted him before you knew he had a girlfriend? If you were hoping to start dating him again, don’t meet him. There’s no point and even if he wants to catch up as friends it might be painful if you still like him.

BumbleBeee69 · 04/03/2020 00:21

Cancel this meet up.... regardless of his intentions..

dustibooks · 04/03/2020 00:28

Perhaps send something like: "Oh, I'm really sorry, I didn't realise you had a girlfriend so it wouldn't be right for us to meet up, take care Smile "

Ryantrain · 04/03/2020 00:42

You werent friends before so why go back unless you want him romantically in which case there is no point in meeting uo because he has a gf now. Why do you even care to analyse if hes not happy with her? You think he will dump her for you when he see you again?

Mamadothe · 04/03/2020 08:00

No defo don’t agree to meet up. Your not friends

Friendsofmine · 04/03/2020 08:13

You are not friends and your relationship had potential so it is completely inappropriate to meet him now whatever he says.

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