o I found my husbands reply to a woman on a dating site. False name and ‘would like to meet up’ When it happened he said it was just texting - nothing else. When I asked how many women he had texted like this he said about 4. The kids were in the middle of exams so I lived with it.
The other day I saw a text on his phone to a name I didn’t recognise. When I asked him who it was he said it was someone at work. I asked him to show me the text. He went to get his phone but spent ages deleting stuff before he brought it. By which time I said forget it - you’ve clearly deleted anything you didn’t want me to see so obviously there were things on there he didn’t want me to see. I can’t get past this wondering what he was deleting and why he couldn’t just give me his phone to look at. What would you do? We’ve been married 25yrs and this started in 2016/17. Kids have done exams and at uni now so nothing keeping me here. Our sex life is non existent but my doing not his . Thing is he thinks now he can brush this under the carpet and just carry on, wanting to kiss / cuddle. I don’t feel like I can though.