WhatsApp ?

[Lucylooooo]

Can it do things on its own when I'm not even near my phone?!

Yes he's been utterly suffocating before. Very needy etc.

Change your passcode. He doesn’t trust you and seriously overstepping boundaries. He’s checking up on you.

Run away now

He sounds possessive OP run like the wind (after deactivating the location thingy of course!)

@lucylooo you can install WhatsApp on a computer and drive it from there.

Yes, you can link WhatsApp to a laptop- but if you into the settings it will tell you if it has been and you can log out from there.

You also have to be fairly near the phone connected to the account for it to work, so it's unlikely that anybody has done this if they have left the house.

Mine made a call today. To the person we were taking about!! Thankfully only saying nice things.

Has he connected it to his computer

When you have eliminated the impossible... whatever remains must be the truth...

your BF is a barefaced Liar

Check the phones internet history OP and recently used apps. Link your mobile to your laptop/another device, set up alerts.

I'd download one of those apps that takes a photo on the front camera when a wrong password is put in at login, change the password and hey presto. Sounds like you don't trust him anyway though so why is he around?

Thanks for all the messages. I've checked all suggestions and can't find anything untoward. We were meant to be trying to work on things. Just shows he's not changed and just pretending he has. I have found it increasing difficult to be around him or show affection so probably for the best that this has happened.

Regardless of the WhatsApp thing, you sound unhappy in this relationship so leave him.

OP credit to you for being focused enough to see this for what it is.. gaslighting and controlling... of course he went I to your phone.. you have the evidence despite what he says he's still a Liar... Personally I would deactivate my WhatsApp account completely.. because deleting the app will not remove it from 'anyone's' computer screen... google it OP.. just incase 🌺

Google WhatsApp Web .... and delete the account OP.. start again

Also go onto WhatsApp web on your WhatsApp settings and check he hasn’t connected you up to one of his devices using QR code

About to separate and my husband is trying to steamroller me into financial decisions. I have an appointment with a solicitor later this week. My issue is benefits ie. What (if any) benefits could I be entitled to? I'm not currently working and our only child is at uni. Any advice appreciated. Thanks in anticipation x