AIBU - For missing the single life

[thecardiganstealer]

So I'm 21 and have a relationship which i have been in for 3 months now but whenever my friends talk about how they're going on dates and flirting with people, i kind of get nostalgic and start to miss being in the single life. My partner can sometimes say things which i take seriously because of the tone he uses but he says it's just a joke etc, I've cried at least three times because of getting frustrated with myself or if he has made a comment (he has never hurt me!) but i just don't know his love can be too overwhelming for me and i love myself (still trying to find me) but not as much as he loves me. I need opinions

It's only been 3 months and you're crying that much already? Just talk to him or take things slower, or better yet just leave him and enjoy the single life that you miss so much

This is the wrong relationship, you’re with the wrong person. You shouldn’t be crying. You want someone who shares your sense of humour. It’s unlikely you know each other very well or are in love.

One of the best things about being in a relationship is NOT having to date or try and find someone you fit with. When you meet the right person life is easier, happier, more relaxed, the future is brighter, you feel like you’ve come home.

If you’re pining for the thrill of the chase, for the chance to meet someone new then walk away and do that!