Been seeing someone since December, have known him a while longer. He's been separated almost 2 years but not yet divorced (though he wasn't clear about that at first)
We share interests, sense of humour, and generally have a nice time - but I have no idea how he feels.
We message a fair bit, see each other on our free nights - mostly at his, as I've got my 2 DC full time. We're not 'public' because of DCs, but I don't know if I'm just a convenience in terms of keeping him company - rather than there being a properly meaningful connection. I'm not sure what my expectations should be, I guess? I'm so confused! Ex was abusive emotionally, financially, verbally, controlling and cruel - new chap is lovely, respectful & kind - but I'm driving myself mad doubting everything... Help / advice??