I don't want to say

[MrsNamechangeforthis2]

Me and my DH share the same apple account on our phone's so we each get each other's photos.
Today I just had a look in my photos to find a porn photo man and a woman. I told me it's not mine he then scuttled off it's now deleted. I don't really know what to say to him. The screen shot was last night when I was asleep next to him. We haven't slept together for 2 weeks I've been recently diagnosed with an illness and I've been quite poorly and tired I've also got two small children to take care of. We've been together 18 years nothing like this before. We are mid 30s

Same sort of things happened to me last year. Hes been looking at porn....probably because you two haven't had sex in a couple of weeks.

How do you feel about porn? Does it bother you if he uses these pics to masturbate ? If so, then you need to speak with him. It blew me away when I found porn on my DH phone...pics too. So unlike him. It's taken a year to resolve the insecurity it bred in me. But we did get through it. They're pictures used for masturbation, a lot of men do it. You just have to decide if it's something you can accept, or not x

I'd also add he has probably always done this but deleted afterwards. Doesnt tend to be a one off.

But that doesnt have to be the end of the world or anything for him to be ashamed of, as long as he is HONEST with you. It's the lying and deceit around these things that causes problems xx

I don't know how I feel about it really, I've never watched it.
I feel disgusted we've have a big fight be he thinks it's fine where him masturbation next to be in bed watching that make me feel a little sick.
I think probably wrongly that a man watching it on this own is sad.
If he can't wait two weeks again I think he's pathetic.
We aren't talking and that suits me fine.