What are the signs of a narcissist?

[Mamadothe]

As above really, unsure if my ex fits this profile. He’s incapable of communicating his true thoughts and feelings , says things then changes his mind or pretends he never said it, love bombs never one min then doesn’t see a future with me

Anyone ?

Pleased to see he’s your ex. That’s the main thing. Don’t worry about labelling him just move on.

Good that you have moved on, but there are a lot of narcissists about. It's useful to be educated so you are at a lesser risk of falling for one in the future. Note that COVERT narcissists are particularly dangerous as they are able to mask their narcissism so well and may appear very kind.

If you Google you'll find TONS of articles and YouTube videos about this personality disorder. If you want more specific and well researched information, I would suggest Masterson's book about The Real Self, which is a classic and covers a variety of personality disorders.

I also recall an excellent book entitled The Wizard of Oz and Other Narcissists, which specifically focuses on different forms of narcissism.