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Need to talk but don't know how

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Fidelis1980 · 28/02/2020 14:06

Hi the other day I posted about meeting someone else. I've had no contact with them as I blocked them. I have no intention of pursuing that. However this has made it very clear there is something wrong in my relationship. I can't put my finger on it.

I nearly said something to my partner today but I know it would destroy her and I don't know what to say as I'm not sure why I feel his way. Been together 18 years with a 14 year old dc. We have 1 car between us and rent a house of her parents. So this could get very messy. I know I will get a load of shit for this post but I need to know how to go about things that will cause the least amount of damage. Whether that means trying to fix things or leaving. Really wish I knew what was causing this. Will still enjoy sex together so i don't think it's that. And apart from the other night I've had no interest in other women.

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Cinderemma · 28/02/2020 14:08

If you're even considering staying spare your partner the pain and leave. I think I replied on your other thread. If you aren't happy speak to her chances are she's already wondering what isn't right.

stoptherideiwanttogetoff · 28/02/2020 14:11

Tell the truth and let her find happiness with someone else then you can do as you please. Simple really..

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