It’s a trust one

[Sunflowersok]

Can trust be rebuilt after it is broken in a relationship? How can this be achieved from the hurt party?

@BigFatLiar

Thank you.

Totally the reality check I need to hear right now. I’m going to look into getting back to counselling. I thought my untrusting days were over until this but I have shown myself to have snapped right back.

As for the codependency, I will also explore ways to address the issue with this too.

Sorry, I havent read all of this thread, but I think if yuo have a relationship that works for you now then you should trust it that.
Everyone has bad moments in their past that they would like to airbrush out or reinvent. I dare say you do to.
Leave the past in the past, no one wants to share their faults with a partner or all their past problems. I think you need to step back and think why you expect him to have lived a perfect life, before you have even met.