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Friends husband taking pictures of a woman he works with without her knowledge?

31 replies

dewluv · 27/02/2020 16:03

Friend has been married for 20 years, Things have been a bit rocky recently (He has been a bit secretive with his phone, out of nowhere) so she had a quick look.

She found a folder in his gallery and there were 100s of pictures of the same woman, she is either bent over, so the picture has been taken from behind, or just random normal pictures of her going about her day)

Friend showed me these pictures and I noticed right away that this woman did not seem aware these pictures were being taken, she was not posing for them, hard to explain, but its obvious this woman works with the husband, so say one of the pictures is her bending down to pick up a box from the ground, or her on the phone, but the picture is zoomed onto her chest etc) For context they work in a car dealership, which is how I knew they had been taken at work.

She went home and confronted her husband and he has admitted that yes this woman works with him, yes he took the pictures, no she was not aware he was doing it, when friend asked him why he had done this he replied that she never let him take sexy pictures of her so he got them elsewhere.

She is now asking me what she should do, as in, does she need to contact the police? the woman herself? her work? Never been in a situation like this before so have no idea on what she should do? Being honest its made me feel a bit sick that this lady was going into work every day, getting on with her job and has now had all these pictures taken without her knowledge and they are being sexualized by someone she works with.

My friend does not work at the same company and does not know this lady.

OP posts:
smotheroffive · 28/02/2020 12:38

Stalking is evidenced on just THREE incidents, he has taken hundreds of pictures. Its a crime. Its sexualised and he's admitted that and that he's stalking her.

Police. Now.

Sunflowersok · 28/02/2020 16:56

Oh my days this is just awful. I can’t imagine what your poor friend is feeling right now.

Yes definitely a police matter, lots of support for her and consideration for the victim in question. How awful Confused

puds11 · 28/02/2020 21:25

It’s voyeurism and it’s illegal. Report to police and place of work.

Purplewhitelie · 28/02/2020 21:52

Tell her.

Herpesfreesince03 · 28/02/2020 22:01

What is he doing with these photos? Sounds like he’s collecting wanking material. Sick af. He needs arresting

HomerSimpsonSmilingPolitely · 01/03/2020 20:41

This is a police matter

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