I have recently come out of a very toxic relationship, he was my first love and we were together for a very long time a d have a little girl who is now two.
I decided that enough was enough he was drinking around our daughter most nights and controlled all money and put me down about being at home looking after our daughter although he didnt want me to work. He then wanted us too move away from my family my support network because he didnt like my family, which is a massive massive thing for me as I am so close to my mum and dad especially and they help me out so much so I knew we were over. Since weve broke up hes been absolutely vile towards me calls me names when hes drunk, he doesnt help with childcare and I just genuinely feel like hes going to ruin my life. I know that sounds dramatic but everything is so difficult with him , he hates me because we will be splitting the equity in the house and says I've broken his heart and I'm taking his daughter away from him which I would never ever do, but yet hes bought a house over an hour away from his daughter. I just want everything to be civil and most importantly want a happy life for my little girl. I know I've done the right thing for my little girl because I dont want her to be around the drinking and the disgusting way he speaks to me but I also worry about how difficult hes going to make my life.
Sorry I know it's a long winded post but just keep a bit off advice. I just want to be happy again and want my daughter to have a happy home life.