Does he want me back or not ?

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Hey everyone I’m new here 👋
Hoping for some advice. Me and ex broke up last summer I broke up with him and completely broke his heart but at the time he become really hard to be around. We tried again twice after the break up but the communication wasn’t working so we parted ways and have kept in contact since on friendly terms. I asked him to give things another go in January which he said no too which was hard cause it took a lot for me to say this. Anyway we didn’t speak again until recently after I text when I was drunk 🙈 we spoke for two full days straight with him saying he loves me and thinks about me every single day he said he was coming to see me and changed his mind. Thing I am confused about is he tells me he loves me then goes cold. Tells me all the right things but doesn’t act on it. I can’t move on cause I’m holding onto the fact he “loves” me. I just don’t know what to do move on fully or hope that he does actually love me but is scared to commit again

Block and move on.’it shouldnt be hard work.

All he is doing is now holding on to the power he has over you. You hurt his ego by dumping him, so he is playing with you to make himself feel better.

Deep down, you both know this isnt going to work. Youve tried 3 times already. It shouldnt be this hard.

Try and block and move on, dont let him mess with your head any longer, as thats whats happening here. Someone who actually loves you wont behave like this, its BS.

Thanks guys I actually agree with everything you say. I am a very (normally) strong minded person and would be over soemthing a lot quicker than this but he cries and tells me all the right things and Iv fel for it

Love is what someones doing and not what they're saying OP so you need to go by that and that alone. Think of it as an action and not a word.

He sounds like he enjoys the attention and the drama of it all 'Thinks about you every day' but didnt bother to text or commit or even turn up. You know he is full of shit OP. Don't hang around and lose your dignity because yet another man has worked out that the L word and an empty promise works a treat on vulnerable women.