Hi, I'm hoping for some advice/words of wisdom. I've posted recently about my partner self harming when we argue. He's now spiralled further and is constantly talking about wishing he was dead, including ways that he wants to die. He says he hates himself and his life and being dead seems like the only logical solution. He's started counselling but is only two sessions in and hasn't yet told the therapist about all this. It's very frightening and also exhausting - last night we hardly slept because he was flipping between being angry and crying. That was after drinking heavily for most of the day. The really hard thing is that a lot of why he feels this way is because of our relationship, and when he gets angry with me it's harder to soothe him. I've suggested he talks to his GP or calls the Samaritans or CALM, but he doesn't want to. I don't feel that I can talk to his family - once previously when I thought he was having a breakdown I called his sister who is a GP, and he was absolutely furious with me and still hasn't forgiven me. To be honest, I want to leave him, but couldn't live with myself if he seriously hurt himself. Help!!!