24 years is too long to summarise fully but basicIy I was 29 he was 63. he had 2 grown children from ex. We wanted DC but nature didn’t oblige so we adopted the most amazing, loving child and he is my world. So far life is good but we moved out of London to a lovely big house with sheep from neighbours, wonderful local friends etc. But there were 3 issues 1- my mother had to live with us while we built an annex which took a while, I developed fibromyalgia and he had a small stroke which has altered his personality. So 24 years into marriage I’m in a marriage with someone who I don’t love but my son adores him, my mother loathes my DH because he’s made me unhappy and I have no independent money as many years ago I would be a stay at home mom. we have also now lost. Some savings so our forever house is actually financially crippling us. I feel like I have 3 options A full divorce which won’t be amicable but I will be denying my son and his Dad ongoing time together. B emotionally separate- we’d share a home but not be in a relationship and C