How do you know when your done?

[themummydiaries1]

When me and my partner got together I was fun, outgoing and confident. 5 years later I'm anxious, emotional, moody, snappy, don't enjoy spending time together, never laugh together etc. Had a baby 6 months ago, and he's just not as helpful as I would like. I'm exhausted. Seriously considering leaving I'm still young and want the old me back. Also would be better off financially if I moved back with parents. I do love him. I just don't want this for the rest of my life. Anyone been in similar situation?

It's not going to get better OP. You sound absolutely rung out and exhausted. Go and stay with your parents and take it from there.

Have you talked to him? Have you have it's got this bad you are really struggling?

Were you feeling this way abou the relationship before the baby or os this about not adjusting as a couple?

Do you have PND?

No need to answer me though, just some thoughts I had reading your post.

Agree with the above, were you feeling like this long before you got pregnant? I’d say it’s probably normal to not feel yourself after having a baby but if you’ve been feeling like this for a while then yes, perhaps move in with family to get more baby support and a chance to rest and some space to get a clearer mind, before making any big decisions.

Gosh sorry so many typos on this phone!