Hi, I just need some advise. This may be long. So I have separated from my h last Xmas, after a really shitty relationship. So now I have finally healed emotionally and feel that maybe I’d like to meet someone, as I’m starting to get a bit lonely and really miss sex although the sex with ex was nothing to write home about. I don’t want to OLD and I’m from a small town and my ex is fairly well known. So my dilemma! About 10 years ago I was kinda meeting up with a guy, just a few times, a lot of alcohol involved and just basically hooking up, absolutely nothing serious. It just fizzled out. We were txting and stuff but it all stopped. So a few times I looked him up on fb as I suppose iv alway been curious, as tbh the sex was great. He was in a relationship but recently checked up on him again and relationship seems to be over. I would love to add him on fb. But I’m scarred. Would I look stupid and desperate??