I have just had the results of my smear with the above diagnosis. They have booked me in for a colposcopy in 2 weeks. Read about it and seems ok diagnosis and glad something is getting done. Although I got the call for the appointment before the test results, so but if a shock.
I am in a complicated situation with my ex, broke up and now seeing each other again, seeing where things can go. He stayed over last night and I got the appointment call this morning. He knows I have an abnormal smear and seemed concerned. Any googling he can do will show majority of recalls are due to Hpv.
At my smear, the nurse explained the HPV tests and did say that it’s really common to be tested positive and if positive, not worth mentioning to my partner, as most people will get it at some point and it clears itself. They said 85% of the population will have it at some point and there is no test for guys.
Not necessarily got it from him as it can lie dormant. My last smear 5 years ago was clear - but had a few partners since recent guy. Just very awkward.
2 questions really.
- Has anyone experienced this diagnosis. If so what’s your experience and what did they do?
- Should I tell ex. Don’t want to start again on a lie, but then this is something he can’t be tested for and will go away