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Why is ex messaging me?

17 replies

resstt · 18/02/2020 13:57

We split up a few days before Christmas.
He blocked me on WhatsApp and social media.
Yesterday he sent me a message on WhatsApp saying "hi just letting you know I've unblocked you"
I said "ah right ok"
Then he replied "yeah I've unblocked everyone on WhatsApp"
Then he text asking how I was and telling me what he had been up too.
Do you think he might still be interested?

OP posts:
Humanswarm · 18/02/2020 13:59

You could ask him..

ALittleBitConfused1 · 18/02/2020 14:00

Does it matter he is in an ex for a reason. No good ever comes from going backwards. In my experience this happens when they are usually done, have just split with someone or are just sniffing around for an easy shag with an ex.

resstt · 18/02/2020 14:10

I don't want to just say ..why are you messaging ?
I feel a bit awkward

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mnthrowaway202020 · 18/02/2020 14:12

I just wouldn’t reply

TashieWoo · 18/02/2020 14:12

I would just ignore him, all sounds a bit childish and like he thinks he’s doing you a favour by unblocking you. Delete his number and move on Flowers

mnthrowaway202020 · 18/02/2020 14:12

Mute the conversation

AmazingGreats · 18/02/2020 14:13

I would block him right back and never unblock him. Block and delete. Ex for a reason. He's toying with you.

PixieRabbit · 18/02/2020 14:15

Block and delete. He’s just looking for somewhere to park his penis.

yogo · 18/02/2020 14:15

Block him

Rojelio · 18/02/2020 14:24

As above block and move on

MitziK · 18/02/2020 14:54

Been dumped by whoever he was fucking over Christmas, New Year and Valentine's, then?

Wishforsnow · 18/02/2020 14:57

Block him

Whatsnewpussyhat · 18/02/2020 15:05

Block and delete. He’s just looking for somewhere to park his penis

This.

lifeisgoodmostofthetime · 18/02/2020 15:27

Depends. Do you want him back?

Whynosnowyet · 18/02/2020 15:29

He is hoping for a shag...

dontgobaconmyheart · 18/02/2020 15:31

He probably got dumped.

I'd not even have replied to be honest OP. Why would it matter if he was interested? The relationship failed and he found you/anything you had to say so distasteful he blocked you on whatsapp. You clearly arent able to have honest conversations as two adults if you feel you can't question him, and he is obviously game playing with the nonsense he messaged. Block and leave it!

If he's interested its because he wants attention and if wants it it means its dried up elsewhere

Ruby889 · 18/02/2020 18:57

I had an ex try to add me back on facebook today. I deleted the request.

It depends why you broke up though, id be wary though

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