Ok I am about to possibly end things with my oh. I have tried talking with him but made to look silly and completely made me feel small. We haven't had a fight or anything. I really wanted to see what others thought.
We had a really good relationship. Suddenly last July he stopped being intimate overnight. Since Christmas he will sleep on the sofa more often then not. If i try and hug him i get pushed away for being too hot or even too cold.
To top it all off recently i found he had a stash of toys and bits which he has been using. I was away over the weekend and they got used as well as an old laptop by the bed. He used to be very affectionate but now nothing.