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Fourth date at my house?

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Fedup99990 · 17/02/2020 15:29

Been on few dates with I guy I met online. We had a bit of a kiss at the end of the last date. I suggested he came to my house for the next date to watch a film we’d talked about.talked about. Now, wondering if that would seen as just inviting him for sex?

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Selfsettling3 · 17/02/2020 15:30

Film and sex, is what is sounds like. Netflix and chill as the kids call it.

HeddaGarbled · 17/02/2020 15:31

Yes.

HollowTalk · 17/02/2020 15:32

Yeah and I think you wouldn't have a date out of the house for ages. Is it difficult for you to get out?

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Fedup99990 · 17/02/2020 15:33

But also wondering if it matters!!

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Fedup99990 · 17/02/2020 15:34

Hollow, no don’t think that’s true. We e a,ready talked about places we’d like to go together at weekends

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EuroMillionsWinner · 17/02/2020 15:37

Yep, I'd take it as invitation for sex. Really wouldn't bring someone I don't know well back to my house, either, or fall into the 'Woman cooks for man in her home' date pattern.

PumpkinP · 17/02/2020 15:48

Yep it looks that way.

okiedokieme · 17/02/2020 21:48

Yes, it's an invitation ... impressed you managed 3 dates first (3rd date at mine in my case, was willing after 1!)

dazzlinghaze · 17/02/2020 22:01

Yeah, I would assume it was an invitation for sex but if you want to then who cares? Just don't let it slip into the pattern of always having dates in the house if you still want going out dates!

category12 · 17/02/2020 22:01

Yep.

Instamaticstars · 17/02/2020 22:04

My second date with my DP was for food at his house... I naively believed I was going for food at his house... very new to dating 😂 I didn’t get any food....

His does cook wonderful meals for me now though!

Cheeseandwin5 · 18/02/2020 10:23

While it may be a hope ( for both of you). Just because you have invited him around doesn't mean that you or he needs to go any further than you are comfortable with.

CaMePlaitPas · 18/02/2020 10:34

Yeah, he'll definitely be expecting sex.

Cohle · 18/02/2020 10:48

Yes, but if you're fine with that then why not! Fourth date seems pretty reasonable to me.

squishedgrapes · 18/02/2020 11:45

If a man invited me to his house to watch a film, I'd take it to mean sex. I'd only go if I wanted to have sex. Can you not go to the cinema if this isn't what you want

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Fedup99990 · 18/02/2020 13:57

Thanks, going to have him over and see what happens!!

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