I met a guy at the end of last year, we started as friends and as we've spoken (he lives hours away) it started to develop into us liking each other romantically. Just as we were arranging a weekend to see each other, he became poorly and has been so since so we've not managed to arrange anything.
Things have cooled off whilst he gets himself better and we still chat but not like we were.
I'm hopeful that we can make a go of things in a few months when he's had the all clear and he's better, but he won't talk about it & I don't want to push it with him being unwell.
In the meantime (this has been weeks and weeks) I've met someone through a friend. He's made it clear he fancies me and wants to go for a drink, but as nice as he is, I have no physical attraction to him at all, I know that's shallow and I should base it on personality as well.
Part of me thinks just go for a drink with him, see what happens and see if an attraction develops for me.
I don't want to wait around for the first guy & find out he doesn't want anything & miss a chance with someone I could potentially, maybe like.