Now what?

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So apparently he "doesn't feel that way about me anymore". We have a 2 year. A massive mortgage and 0 savings.

Practically we will need to be separated while living together.

I need so advice pls. What now??

Are you married?

Yep.
But after the chat this morning I'm honestly not sure why he went through with it.
Sad.
Angry.
Ashamed.
Lost.

First thing is to get legal advice.

Do you work? If you are separated but still living together you can still claim benefits as a single person. I did as ex took 6 months to move out (we agreed this).

I need legal advice. Financial advice.
Yep
But how do I get through the day?how do we coparent? How do I put boundaries up? I dont know what to do.

I have a good (well paying) job and work full time. Wont be eligible for benefits. Not really worried about the money. "We" have assets. It's the reality I'm struggling with. 12 fucking years.
Apparently he's been growing this apathy for 8. We've only been married 5. Why would he do this??

Can't you divorce and sell the house?

Get legal advice first thing Monday.

Possible OW in the wings.

We'll try to sell. Not sure it'll move anytime soon. And that's the problem. If he wants to end it he can go.but he wont. I dont want to see his face every day.

There may be another woman. Honestly dont give a fuck who he is fucking. Just dont wanna see his betraying face from the time I wake up to the time I go to bed