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NPD and psycopath Ec

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Rosetta19 · 15/02/2020 21:47

Please help. I've helped many others on here. Name change.

My exH raped me and took my children. He is a psychopath. I've lived without my children for over a year. I've tried to commit suicide because of him. I supported him endlessly as he got his quals.

My big ex stalked me and encouraged his nre partner to do so. I couldnt move because of his claustrophobic behaviours. I became a single mother of two in a very physically and intellectually demanding professional role.

My big ex shafted me in the divorce. Left me with nothing. Now HE has refuses to pay me my clean break divorce settlement. I now have to take him back to court.

I met my recent ex. And after my suicide attempt in march 18, we became an item. Please, do not judge me. I needed care and support which he offered. He was also a narc.

I have paid over and over again. Real money. He owes me about 1k. He is refusing to pay. Or rather he wants to pay me installments. Hes had months to sort it. No more. Any longer. Chance has gone.

That he took advantage of a woman who has suffered so much is incomprehensible. He even told me he loved me. Twice. Then denied it.

Please help. Thank you. I have PTSD because of what my big ex did. CAFCASS are aware

OP posts:
lexiepuppy · 16/02/2020 03:39

These men are not doing your mental health any good and I would strongly advise you to go No contact with them or keep to grey rock with ex h about the children.

You need to recover your health and concentrate on your children and yourself.

No man is worth killing yourself over.
If you have to walk away with nothing to get away from a narcopath , do it.
You will be better off having your sanity than money.

Somebody once told me that if you don't have your health and your sanity, you have nothing in life.

Check out these people on YouTube for Narc advice:
Melanie Tonia Evans
Surviving narcissism
Dr Ramani
Sarah Speaks
Narc Survivor

Richard Grannon is good for CPTSD and Narc advice.

Read Lundy Bancroft: Why does he do that? Tells you all about abusers.

Do the Freedom Programme.

Put up strong boundaries. Cut these toxic men out of your life.
Live yourself more. Flowers

lexiepuppy · 16/02/2020 03:40

*Love yourself more

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