greed

[Alfiesmom15]

Am I being over sensitive here but I just opened a tin of chocs I received at x'mas ( i've been restrained I'm trying to lose weight) and there was literally 4 in the bottom, partner has eaten them all... same as son chocolates (son is extremely picky over chocolate so would eat them anyway but this isn't the point) this was the same for my birthday his daughter bought me a bar of galaxy, he ate it. someone bought me a bottle of Jamaican rum he drank it, decided I wouldn't like it, someone else gave me home made plum liquor, also decided I wouldn't like it so that's practically gone. Everything I get gifted to me in the last 6 months hes taken away from me. now I am aware it is only chocolate and I am more then capable of going to shop to buy myself more but they were gifts why should I have to hide gifts in the house because that greedy fuck cant restrain himself and make a bloody sandwich.

YANBU the selfish fucker

That would annoy me. I'm all for sharing but it's nice to ask and not just take!!

Have you said anything to him? And if so what was his reply

So many people put up with greedy selfish cunts like this.

@FlyingWithTheDevil just said I should label foods he's allowed to eat.
which just infuriated me even more like I was refusing to let him eat food.
thing is we have a child who doesn't have a sweet tooth so there is biscuits and things in the bloody kitchen.

Same here when I get given chocolate or buy chocolate my partner will eat them it's so annoying in the end I had enough and told him he wasn't happy but now he will buy his own on the way home from work or he don't have any as he now knows I won't get for him

Your response should've been "No,you swine you should label the items I am allowed to eat as you think what's yours is yours and what's mine is yours so fuck off and forget about a slice of your next birthday cake cause I'm claiming it all then you'll understand my point of view!"

You need your own cupboard or shelf. I find it hard once something has been opened. It's fine if it's sealed though!

My DH does this with me. My dad always bought me chocolates for Christmas and they were special just because he bought them for me. 3 years ago, I got my usual chocolates from my dad and I knew and so did everyone else that would be my dads last Christmas and my last Christmas chocolates I would ever receive from him as he was diagnosed with terminal cancer and my DH ate them the greedy selfish fucker!!!!!

Jesus what a greedy inconsiderate pig. In future, when you are given something, make a point of saying to him "you see these chocolates, they are for me so don't eat them". Or stick a bloody label on them if that's what he clearly needs to keep his mitts off.

Urgh he sounds a delight.
My DP is an utter pig if he receives chocolate for a Birthday and can demolish the box in one sitting. Seems ungrateful somehow to me that he doesn't see the value in the gift.
He doesn't eat mine though. He gets 'the look' which wards him off.

I’ll take a guess he’d be angry if you ate his gifts. Sounds deliberate and nasty.

He's really selfish, isn't he? You are supposed to label all the food he can eat? What about him just not eating your gifts?

Big bar of laxative chocolate op....
Leave it within his reach..