He's unblocked his ex....

[Mammatomyboy16]

Ok, I've been with my boyfriend 4 years this year we have an almost 1 year old.

He cheated on me when our son was 5 months old but I stayed with him because I love him.

Anyway, Valentine's Day today, he's got me absolutely nothing. But I know his Instagram password and I've seen he's unblocked one of old ex's! He's done it today!!!!

I go on his Instagram a lot and she was still blocked yesterday

What do I do? Yes I know I shouldn't look on his social media but I do

You check because you don't trust him.

You need to walk away.

Now you're at the point of checking his SM because you don't trust him - it's over.

He cheated on me when our son was 5 months old

This is all you need to know, surely? Why are you waiting around for it to happen again? Because it will.

He’s creeping on his exes and you’re stalking his social media with alarming regularity. This isn’t going anywhere for either of you. It wasn’t after he cheated on you the first time, but at least you know that for sure now.

OMG - He unblocked his ex on Valentine's day? His previous cheating is enough in and of itself for you to dump him- especially as you had a little baby.

Leaving him is probably for the best anyway due to that, but I'd be intrigued to see if he sends her a Valentine's message or something.

Exactly. Why her and why today? There is another two girls blocked on his Instagram. The girl he cheated on me with and a girl e used to know that he was liking all her photos when I was pregnant.

Just weird how he's only unblocked one?

He's either done it because he knows your checking up on him.
Or he wants to have them contact him.

Because I guess he blocked them for a reason, maybe he's heard they are single again.

But the fact you actually checked today, on valentines makes me believe that you both aren't getting on so I think it's more the second.

If you're constantly snooping on his instagram, the relationship is already over.

He's shady as fuck. He's unblocked his ex because he has no respect for you and doesn't love you and your relationship enough to keep his dick in his pants, as he's already demonstrated, and continues to do so. He doesn't think you'll leave or he doesn't care if you do. Sorry op.

He obviously wants to see what she's been up to. She must be on his mind at the moment?

This is only going to end in tears and heartbreak. Walk away now you deserve so much better. Do it for your own well-being you can not carry on like this.

Perhaps he remembers her as someone who doesn’t stalk his accounts. Who could blame him.

He is thinking of her on Valentines day so unblocks her?
He buys you nothing
How plain can it be?
There's no one blinder than those that will not see

Oh OP. I know you love him but it seems like he doesn't love you or respect you.
For the sake of your child get enough courage to leave and don't look book. This is no life.

So you know for sure now he is a turd. Dont let that be your future.

God reading this I'm like what the hell are you doing with him....

But then I think your me....

I do exactly the same.....it's ridiculous and I'm currently in the process of getting rid of his cheating arse.

But it's mad reading this....I know exactly what your feeling and it's horrible and you do deserve so much better