I’m on a bit of a journey emotionally and physically I guess after leaving my marriage a year ago due to bad emotional abuse (just realising how bad it was now)
Anyway, I stopped my H having unsupervised contact due to a multitude of reasons. It’s still going back and forth between lawyers as to where it will be and when, he deep down does not want to give in to my demands (after all he did nothing wrong...ever) How far do you go with this, how much should you give into. I’m a bit torn because I now know what this man did to me and what he is capable of doing. I would like him to disappear off the end of the earth but that’s my opinion. What is best for ds? He loves his dad, asks where he is and in return his dad loves whatever it is he loves (which is not ds’s best interests) It’s a really tough position to be in just when your trying to navigate through the fog of abuse. He absolutely will cause emotional damage to ds. Will it just be the case of damage control from my end? Me Leaving has put ds in a much better position but there is still danger in what’s ahead.