Hi all really struggling with what to do me and my wife have split she said she didn't love me and doesn't think she will which I understand and also know that I can't force her too or would I even want to she hasn't asked for a divorce or pushed for me to take my things etc I moved out a couple of days ago and I am trying to give her some space and not drill at her to work at the relationship which I think is the right thing to do I have in the last couple of weeks asked all the questions etc asking if we could work on things but as I say now I am just trying to give her the space I think she needs also I have suspected for a while that she might not be in the right head space to which she finally agreed a couple of days ago the problem now is I have the opportunity to get a place on a minimum 6 month contract and I am lost as to what to do like I say I don't want to drill her etc but also don't want her thinking that I have given up maybe it's just me over thinking things but I just want her to see that I am listening and that I am willing to give her that space that I think she needs any ideas