Ok so my previous post. A little highlight for you guys. I had gastric bypass surgery last year and lost 10 stone. After the last 4 months my DH has become controlling, moaning about me seeing friends. Moaning about outfits I wear. It got to the point I didn't want to say I was going meeting friends. He always wanted to come with. In January he woke me up in the morning with his phone in my face saying don't pretend to be asleep you were on Facebook 20 mins ago. When I genuinely wasn't!!! I then told him I had had enough we need a break and to take this time apart to really think about our marraige. We have been together for 5 years. Married for 1 year and a half. I came back to try and work on our marraige and the last two weeks have been so awkward for me. He has been loving and doing everything he can to get in my good books. But I think I have come to the conclusion the week away made me feel happier. More at piece and now I feel our spark has totally gone. My hub is currently on no benefits. We have his son and we rent my house. I pay for everything. He was kicked off job seekers and waiting spinal surgery but has been refused pip. I am the breadwinner and I'm scared to death of ending this marraige. I love him and his son but I don't think I'm in love with him anymore. The biggest thing is them having to go to the council and get a council house and start from fresh. I feel so guilty. I really need advice. Good morning by the way!