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Leaving my husband

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Advice78 · 10/02/2020 05:52

I've decided I have to. Life with him is joyless. He is not abusive, I'm not scared of him and i don't necessarily need to leave in a hurry.

We have a 14 month old daughter.

House is jointly owned, mortgaged. I could just about afford to live here alone, he couldn't.

No joint current acount/credit cards. Joint mortgage and unsecured loan.

He has nowhere to go family wise, i have my parents.

All bills etc come from my account, he pays me a set amount each month.

I'm looking for practical advice- how do i go about doing this?

OP posts:
BillHadersNewWife · 10/02/2020 07:34

Who mainly cares for your child and if you receive any child benefits or tax credits, into whose bank account do they go?

Advice78 · 10/02/2020 08:35

I do, and they go in to my account.

OP posts:
12345kbm · 10/02/2020 11:20

Take a look at the CABx guide to leaving a relationship. This is for England so if you're not in England, search for appropriate advice for where you are.

You can get advice on all child related matters such as contact, maintenance etc from Gingerbread.

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